[DOCS] Add "remove a tag" script logic as an example (#32556)

It took me quite a while of online searching and experimenting to realize the function-call asymmetry in the Add versus Remove from a list, like the "tags" list! I realize we cannot give examples for every single thing the user wants to do in Painless, but this is such a common use case (removing a tag from a single doc, or from a set of docs with Update-By-Query) that I believe it ought to be demonstrated immediately after the "add a tag" example. We have an example of removing an entire document field, but not removing one element of a list (a multi-valued field).

Also, a minor grammar fix: I have added an apostrophe to the word "its" in the accompanying text of the example just above.

Author: JeffSaxeVA

docs/reference/docs/update.asciidoc

@@ -47,7 +47,7 @@ POST test/_doc/1/_update
 // TEST[continued]
 
 We can add a tag to the list of tags (note, if the tag exists, it
-will still add it, since its a list):
+will still add it, since it's a list):
 
 [source,js]
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@@ -65,6 +65,28 @@ POST test/_doc/1/_update
 // CONSOLE
 // TEST[continued]
 
+We can remove a tag from the list of tags. Note that the Painless function to
+`remove` a tag takes as its parameter the array index of the element you wish
+to remove, so you need a bit more logic to locate it while avoiding a runtime
+error. Note that if the tag was present more than once in the list, this will
+remove only one occurrence of it:
+
+[source,js]
+--------------------------------------------------
+POST test/_doc/1/_update
+{
+    "script" : {
+        "source": "if (ctx._source.tags.contains(params.tag)) { ctx._source.tags.remove(ctx._source.tags.indexOf(params.tag)) }",
+        "lang": "painless",
+        "params" : {
+            "tag" : "blue"
+        }
+    }
+}
+--------------------------------------------------
+// CONSOLE
+// TEST[continued]
+
 In addition to `_source`, the following variables are available through
 the `ctx` map: `_index`, `_type`, `_id`, `_version`, `_routing`
 and `_now` (the current timestamp).
@@ -172,7 +194,7 @@ the request was ignored.
    "_index": "test",
    "_type": "_doc",
    "_id": "1",
-   "_version": 6,
+   "_version": 7,
    "result": "noop"
 }
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