[crud] Fix deps comparison bug (#31599)

Fixes a bug with the experimental `useResourceEffect` hook where we
would compare the wrong deps when there happened to be another kind of
effect preceding the ResourceEffect. To do this correctly we need to add
a pointer to the ResourceEffect's identity on the update.

I also unified the previously separate push effect impls for resource
effects since they are always pushed together as a unit.

DiffTrain build for [c11c951](c11c951)

Author: poteto

Diff for: compiled-rn/VERSION_NATIVE_FB

@@ -1 +1 @@
-19.0.0-native-fb-64f89510-20241119
+19.0.0-native-fb-c11c9510-20241120

Diff for: compiled-rn/facebook-fbsource/xplat/js/RKJSModules/vendor/react/react-dom/cjs/ReactDOM-dev.js

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
  * @noflow
  * @nolint
  * @preventMunge
- * @generated SignedSource<<7337c975b782c06f58634906f8c652f3>>
+ * @generated SignedSource<<2185e4149a140a1970869525d77110da>>
  */
 
 "use strict";
@@ -420,5 +420,5 @@ __DEV__ &&
     exports.useFormStatus = function () {
       return resolveDispatcher().useHostTransitionStatus();
     };
-    exports.version = "19.0.0-native-fb-64f89510-20241119";
+    exports.version = "19.0.0-native-fb-c11c9510-20241120";
   })();

Diff for: compiled-rn/facebook-fbsource/xplat/js/RKJSModules/vendor/react/react-dom/cjs/ReactDOM-prod.js

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
  * @noflow
  * @nolint
  * @preventMunge
- * @generated SignedSource<<542cc20a212c2c5a90e35bae5c8211c5>>
+ * @generated SignedSource<<fd16f72b5915df19d7034a54360181c3>>
  */
 
 "use strict";
@@ -203,4 +203,4 @@ exports.useFormState = function (action, initialState, permalink) {
 exports.useFormStatus = function () {
   return ReactSharedInternals.H.useHostTransitionStatus();
 };
-exports.version = "19.0.0-native-fb-64f89510-20241119";
+exports.version = "19.0.0-native-fb-c11c9510-20241120";

Diff for: compiled-rn/facebook-fbsource/xplat/js/RKJSModules/vendor/react/react-dom/cjs/ReactDOM-profiling.js

@@ -7,7 +7,7 @@
  * @noflow
  * @nolint
  * @preventMunge
- * @generated SignedSource<<542cc20a212c2c5a90e35bae5c8211c5>>
+ * @generated SignedSource<<fd16f72b5915df19d7034a54360181c3>>
  */
 
 "use strict";
@@ -203,4 +203,4 @@ exports.useFormState = function (action, initialState, permalink) {
 exports.useFormStatus = function () {
   return ReactSharedInternals.H.useHostTransitionStatus();
 };
-exports.version = "19.0.0-native-fb-64f89510-20241119";
+exports.version = "19.0.0-native-fb-c11c9510-20241120";