Improve telemetry output (#186)

1. Actions and groups are now marked as errored when they fail
2. Set the `otel.name` so it includes the group or action name

This lets us easily query/aggregate which groups or actions are failing
most often.

This fixes #185 and improves on the solution for #154 implemented in
#157.

We accomplish the dynamic span naming by leveraging one of the "special
fields" detailed here
https://docs.rs/tracing-opentelemetry/latest/tracing_opentelemetry/

The naming convention is loosely based on the OTEL http semantic
convention of `{method} {url}`.
Several other of the semantic convention standards are similar as well.
https://opentelemetry.io/docs/specs/semconv/http/http-spans/

In order to access the OTEL Span's `set_status()` method, I needed to
upgrade all of our `opentelemetry` dependencies to the latest version.
When I did this, traces were no longer being properly flushed before
exiting the application, so I updated the implementation based off of
this example from the `opentelemetry-otlp` crate.

https://github.com/tokio-rs/tracing-opentelemetry/blob/v0.1.x/examples/opentelemetry-otlp.rs


Screenshot of what the traces look like now

![image](https://github.com/user-attachments/assets/98c6912e-e5d7-4ade-b745-3e984dcc35c1)

Author: rubberduck203